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John's avatar

There are a couple of things here that I think are inverted----and notably, that folks on 4chan likely also have not notice is inverted.

First, grassroots-left and establishment-liberal aren't equivalent, so it's inaccurate to frame a collective shadow of the two. More, the fighting spirit of grassroots movements (which is especially prevalent right now, but always has been), is pushed out of establishment-liberal politics in favor of incremental change (sometimes this is good and more sustainable, sometimes it isn't). This fighting spirit that is the shadow is held across the political spectrum. Where the difference lies is that the grassroots-left had already directed some of this during the Civil Rights movement (or done some of the shadow work), so it's more difficult for a demagogue to highjack it. And Trump TRIED, his 2000 presidential campaign included pro-gay, universal healthcare, and anti-nazi sentiment. He was not successful at convincing these folks that authoritarian solutions were what they needed, so he gave up and went shadow-right instead, eventually creating MAGA. He does not believe a word out of his own mouth.

Second, western culture has been framing masculinity as a shadow of femininity since at least Victorian London (likely much longer); it predates our current political dynamic. Girls are taught to be women, and boys are taught to not be women. Don't wear women's clothes, don't be gentle, don't be too emotional, don't hug other men, don't bake, don't be submissive, etc. When asked to define masculinity without any negatives, it's difficult to answer.

Here we see grassroots-left may demonize this shadow-masculinity (whether sardonically via the John-ceiling or strictly with no balance between positive heterosocial interactions & objectification). Whereas establishment-liberalism leans more towards rebuilding masculinity and femininity simultaneously. (Let men cry and women make mistakes, reduce violence and loneliness, again, small incremental changes.) While there is a stark difference here in response to masculinity, these are both responses--not the original act of suppression. Men in the past did this to us by introducing policing of femininity to centralize power--->controlling the court behavior of women to control their heirs in England, demonizing women to justify jailing them and giving their land to a landlord during the witch trials, breaking established gender protections to force women to marry in Norway, etc. The more femininity was defined and policed, the more masculinity became a shadow.

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Aslan's avatar

I don't think anyone really of any significance or influence claims that men and women are biologically the same. That seems like a strawman, repeated ad nauseum.

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